Narcissist and Supply: Predator and Prey

It’s normal to trust, believe and care.
It’s 100% abnormal not to.
We can’t understand abnormal by looking at it from normal.
So, let’s look at it for their side without our rose-colored glasses.

Narcissistic people who are in the zone of pathological narcissism know that they don’t have relationships. Even though they step up to us with this mesmerizing zinger, I’ve never met anyone like you before. They know they’re not stepping into a real relationship. We think they are; that we are.

The thing is, they aren’t saying what we think they’re saying. We naturally hear one thing, but they mean another. They don’t want a relationship, not even when they say, you’re my soulmate. Want to know why this is…?

Narcissistic Brain Wiring

The pathologically narcissistic does not have relationships. They know this about themselves and are quite satisfied with this. – They wouldn’t want to be like us if they could be.

Have you heard that the pathologically narcissistic have a brain and body wired to use other people? They use other people rather than bond with others.

Because of this, other people are a resource for all things. And the things they need and want from us fulfill all aspects of their survival. Other humans are used by them for every piece of their existence. For every snip, from their livelihood to their shelter to their entertainment and their respectability. As impossible as this seems, it’s true. – You’ve experienced some of this or I’m guessing you wouldn’t be here…?

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Narcissistic Parasitic Predators vs Great Goodness

As regular people, as goodhearted humans, we innately have what I call great goodness. This entails natural and instinctive care and concern for others. Because of this – based on this – we have a whole bunch of ways that we behave and think. And so, out of this natural great goodness, we’ve agreed as a society that all people have some good in them.

You could say that these creatures are our natural predator and we’re their natural prey… Just like a tiger and a gazelle… Or a lion and a zebra, the bear and the fish or the fox and rabbit.

Rising from our own great goodness, we like to think that if someone has some bad, that they can change. We do look at the world through rose-colored glasses! Our view and thinking are a testament to our great goodness!

So, this is what we’re taught, and this is lovely – yet, this isn’t quite the case. How can this be…? To take this in, what if we made an amendment to this belief…? Could you shift this a teensy-tiny? What if you were to imagine that while all people have the potential for great goodness, not all people will express this natural human great goodness in this lifetime…?

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The Mind Boggling Reality of Pure Narcissism

What if our awareness and acceptance that they exist my friends, is the way in which those who are locked into pure pathological narcissism will just maybe have a chance to alter their next life time?

It’s very difficult to absorb and integrate into our beliefs that there are actually bad people. Particularly if these bad people are our boss, pastor, professor, grocer, neighbor, and the like. And harder still when they’re our spouse, sibling, parent, or partner. However, in the case of the narcissistic in the pathological realm – ASP and what people think of as NPD…

These people, counter to everything we believe and know so far – these beings really are bad, and really cannot be anything else. They can’t behave any other way.

They aren’t making a choice to not care… They naturally and normal-for-them don’t care. – And I ask you, is this really so impossible…? You’ve seen them. And you’ve experienced repeated and unending frustration and confusion.

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Narcissistic Predator and Human Prey

They biologically, physiologically, mentally, and emotionally cannot experience or have what we call a “relationship”. Instead, they prey upon us. They know that we wouldn’t like this truth, so they pretend to be like us. They adopt a persona that fits things that seem normal and most of all good to us. Parroting phrases that have meaning to us, combined with their innate natural quality that spell-binds prey hits the target of our hearts.

Our great goodness and care inspire us to want to make the world a better place. There’s nothing wrong in that – don’t let anyone tell you that there is

Think of it as a kind of camouflage given to them by nature. A natural altering of something we perceive as normal. An instinct and natural quality built into them so that they might survive. Every living entity wants more than anything else, and: the bottom line is, to continue to live.

Every living thing does all it can do in order to live. We fight to the death to keep living. This is where our entrapment equates to their life and death from their point of view. They need us, and our trust, belief, and the hypnotic stupor they naturally induce within us that has us giving, doing, and defending them.

You could say that these creatures are our natural predators and we’re their natural prey. Just like a tiger and a gazelle. Or a lion and a zebra, the bear and the fish, or the fox and rabbit.

These people are sociopaths. – many people call them “narcissists” with some unfortunate confusion and mix up with non-pathological but dysfunctional people. The sociopath’s sole “purpose” and natural way of life is to make use of others.

If we’re destroyed in the process, they don’t mind a bit. They see this as a sign of their success: our response, no matter how we respond, signifies to them that we are hooked: that they are successful. That they are “good: at what they do, clever, smart, the best.

Patholgoically Narcissistic by Nature

The pathologically narcissistic know that the entanglement we’re in is not a relationship… They do not have relationships. – They biologically, physiologically, mentally, emotionally cannot experience or have what we call a “relationship”. – And they wouldn’t want to if they could.

You could say that these creatures are our natural predators and we’re their natural prey… Just like a tiger and a gazelle… Or a lion and a zebra, the bear, and the fish, or the fox and rabbit.

Unlike the animal kingdom, for some reason, we aren’t born knowing we’re someone’s prey. – It’s time we did.

Naturally Human by Nature

Yet amazingly, unlike the fish, the rabbit, and the zebra and gazelle who are locked in for a lifetime of this – we aren’t. Because of our amazing human brain, we have another option.

We don’t have to be anyone’s dinner ever again. Once we comprehend the reality of this narcissistic predator, we can maneuver the pathologically parasitic sociopath out of our lives. Permanently. Ultimately, we can render ourselves user-proof forever.

Narcissistic Beings Exist

It’s time we accept that they exist. If we can, we don’t have to be anyone’s dinner ever again.

And best of all, we don’t have to change a thing about who we are as gorgeously normal humans who connect and bond and love and trust nor alter our kindness and caring. – We can deepen it, indulge in it more freely, more fully, and just plain, more.

We Get to Save the World After All

Our great goodness and care inspire us to want to make the world a better place. There’s nothing wrong with that – don’t let anyone tell you that there is. Any great religion or great philosopher will tell you that this is truly what we’re here to do. Here’s the thing, guess what…? Our great goodness and ability to understand others can naturally limit the bad they can do.

What if our awareness and acceptance that they exist, my friends, is the way in which those who are locked into pure pathological narcissism will just maybe have a chance to alter their next lifetime? Could it be that without any contact with them, and by our absolute full and bold comprehension of what they are that we get to shift the picture from “natural predator and prey” to “ineffective and saving grace”?

By us knowing and recognizing the pathological user, they will not be able to do what they do. Fewer and fewer of us will fall prey to their odd spell. Without going through the hell of being ensnared we can effect change! Since they won’t be causing such harm do they then have a chance to reap something better…? I think so. – Hang onto those rose-colored glasses.

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