Recovery Coaching: A Guided Tour from Hell to Whole

What is recovery coaching with me like? What do we do? What’s my approach..? I’m asked these or similar questions sometimes and the simple answer is: we start where you are and go from their. Every session is unique to the person I’m speaking with.

From “Hello” to Hell to Ghost: There are Answers

We from where you are. Sessions begin with you telling me about yourself and your circumstances and whatever is upper most in the situation that might need immediate attention.

Over sessions we integrate the reality of what a sociopath is – and a new conception of what gorgeously normal is and weave this into your understanding of your experience. I call this “reframing the nightmare”. We find solutions and answers and resolution. I offer techniques to redirect post traumatic stress emotions, grieve, and so much more. Recovery happens on many levels simultaneously.

What’s the Difference Between You and Therapy?

I often say, do anything and everything that helps you. That said, not all recovery methods or approaches help. Some make things worse. This is a specific trauma that isn’t understood or seen clearly within society at large. We lived the whole cycle from “hello” to “ghost” emotionally as if it were real…an actually a relationship. The reality is that it’s anything but. These are not relationships. This is the basis of my recovery paradigm. What we’ve been dragged through is a crime of deception and fraud.

I’ve witnessed that we don’t fully recover if that continues as our concept of what happened; relationship counseling or relationship therapeutic concepts don’t fit. – For instance, it does’t happen because we’re codependent or have low self-esteem.

Additionally, naturally in the immediate aftermath you’re in shock. This is represented by the state of mind of disbelief.

Literally, you can have the words, I don’t believe it running in your head. We even say this out loud. This is shock. It’s normal. It’d be very concerning if this wasn’t happening.

As another example, a therapist can see this state of shock as “denial” implying we’re deliberately refusing to see or accept that we had a part in a bad relationship and are “disassociating”. This can lead to such negative feelings about ourselves that we’re defeated and no better off. Therapists don’t typically see this extreme and surreal hijacking we’ve experienced as a crime.

There are other methods I have for rebalancing the PTSD. Being told we “have PTSD” is shocking in itself; the thing is, post trauma is normal after trauma. Our bodies are responding perfectly. There is nothing wrong with us, there’s everything right with us. Everything we’re feeling is perfectly normal and not permanent.

Together, We Begin Where You Are

In hearing where you are in it by you telling me all you want to tell me, we begin. I offer new insights into what sociopaths are, as well as what you re as a gorgeous normal human being. You get to realize how amazing you are and that you have every right to be who you are. – There’s nothing about you that made this happen other than being fully limbic brained like all mammals, and breathing. (Those are both good things.)

Sociopaths go after anyone, absolutely anyone and everyone. They in fact, have people of every “moral” standing in their harems from criminals and drug addicts to educated, respectable, famous, wealthy anyone.

They do need other humans to hold up their lives and other humans to provide their entertainment. – They’re wired as and see the world from the point of view of what they are, which is parasitic predators. No one is exempt from their attempts aside from those who truly comprehend what they are. This rare knowledge integrated into our reality of life is the only pathological-user repellent.

Dive in To Restore from Truth

Sessions go very deep and even deeper into philosophical and spiritual issues and questions that come up depending on who it is I’m talking with and how we inspire and bounce off one another.

In essence, the sessions are led by who you are, what you need and want and your goals – and what you feel winning is for you in this debacle. Some of us want money back, some need divorces, or our kids back or any number of situations that occur as a result of their invasion into our lives. – We all want our innocence, our dignity, our losses resolved and our self restored. I strive to take people from the floor to a restored and enriched thriving life.

Our primal bodies know the moment we meet them that we’re in danger. Getting sick is common. Being innately intuitive and intelligent and perceptive, getting sick as a waring to us by our body makes sense. This can range from insomnia to hives to Hashimoto’s to high blood pressure and on and on. Where I can, I offer homeopathy for medical, mental, and emotional imbalances we take on under their influence.

No One Breaks Free Until the Spell Breaks

While our bodies may signal danger, no one gets away until the spell breaks… And then it hits like a ton of bricks. – From all that rubble is the raw material we draw from to restore our lives.

It’s very difficult for others who have not experienced this to see and accept that we are in effect under a spell. To realize that these people have an extra-ordinary influence and power – especially over people who like them – is key.

All in all, I’d have to say sessions include a full range of expected and more importantly unexpected topics, emotions, and realizations – and – we definitely get to a place where we laugh!

In financial difficulty, the hourly rate varies, and the regular hour-session fee is $120 per hour. A first session is typically longer than one hour. It’s totally up to you how many session hours you do and for how many weeks.

Sessions are pre-paid… Appointment times can be set by emailing me: jennifer@truelovescam.com or by using the online calendar.

You decide how many sessions will take you to where you want to be. I hope to see you all fully restored leading enhanced lives and thriving.

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