Here’s the thing. If we’re wondering if the guy or girl we’re dating is a sociopath it means things are bad. Right?
It means we’re feeling icky. It means we’re unhappy. It means he or she is treating us badly. It means we feel more yucky than good. Do we need a technical diagnosis to know we’re dating a sociopath? – No. Follow our instincts. We know.
Any breathing human being is potentially a target in the eyes of a sociopath.
Take no responsibility for the inhumanity of a sociopath; we can’t change them. In the case of a sociopath – they cannot change. Ever. And oh, how they love being what they are.
There’s nothing we did to “attract” a sociopath. There’s nothing about us – other than being human, that “caused” a sociopath to knock on our door. Anyone a sociopath encounters is a potential target.
Escaping the charms and hypnotic pull of a sociopath is HUGE. We need all the ammunition we can muster to safely cut them off and break free and recover. Maybe a reminder of what real true love looks like will help.
Being with a sociopath, or a bad guy or girl, can fade diminish our memory of what being with someone good is all about.
REAL True Love is out there. There’s a book that is an über feel-good reminder of what it feels like when love is normal. It’s called “He’s Just Not That Into You”, written by Greg Behrendt, former writer on the early 2000’s HBO show “Sex and the City“. This book made me feel good about being female and was a reminder of what love feels like when it’s good.
“He’s Just Not That Into You” is a reminder of our value.
This may be an unlikely title. It’s a GREAT Book!!
As Greg says: Don’t waste the pretty!
Because, really, after all – when we’re asking: Am I dating a sociopath? — Does it matter? If it hurts isn’t that enough? – Give our best beauty pageant wave and say good-bye to Mr. Wrong and remember what REAL True Love is all about.
To know in our bones and recognize a sociopath
on sight Reframe the Nightmare with a Sociopath.
Dating is not a healing method.
Here’s to REAL True Love and Happiness!
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