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Holiday Hoovering: Seasonal Lies

Holiday hoovering is happening! Read all about it: Here we are again in the thick of the holiday season. It arrives in songs about sleighbells in the grocery store, decorations, and television commercials, nowadays sadly, well before the last Halloween ghost has faded away and the last lone foil-wrapped chocolate witch is eaten.

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Jennifer Smith

October 5, 2016

Hidden traits, under the mask,
behind the charm lurks the real-deal Monster.
The sociopath-demon comes into view.
Then he slips to hide
behind a curtain of pretty
only to flash a thigh of evil.

Hidden traits cover what at first blush in a true love scamming sociopath appears charming. They seem kind. Gentle. Genuine. Unique. Incredible. And so sincere our hearts hurt.

The predator can come across so devastatingly moving we’re humbled in openings into views and moments in life we’ve never seen before; under their uncanny power of influence, we reach what seem to be realizations about ourselves, about them – about how to be human – that endear us more deeply to them.

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5 Ways to Disarm a Love Bombing Sociopath

Love bombing is an explosion of contact.
It’s how the life-jack happens.
How do we stop them from getting inside our lives.

Love bombing is the first tool sociopaths pull from the identical tool-kit they each come along with. They’re all alike and yet, they each think they’re unique and über special. Sociopaths are special for sure, special cases of wrong-doing; by nature these narcissistic life-ruining parasites bend and break hearts and minds where ever they roam. Let’s talk about it…

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