What happened? Are we narcissist-magnets?
Do we attract these parasitic predators?
The truth is, it isn’t our “fault”.
We can avoid a narcissist.

How to avoid a narcissist… Firstly, those of us who know how to recognize a predatory parasite are as close to immune to being entrapped as a normal human can be. Knowledge leads to being able to avoid a narcissist. And, by “narcissist”, we mean a parasitic predator.

If you’re here because you’re getting away from one of these beasts, it’s common to feel it was your fault. If you’re fortunate in that you haven’t been sucked in by one, it’s easy to decide that someone who is sucked in is at fault.

All around us, we find messaging and even might believe that falling under the spell of a pathological parasitic predator- a narcissist, is our fault. A little knowledge goes a long way in avoiding a narcissist, and a great place to start is understanding that it isn’t our fault.

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