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Sociopaths’ sex lives are rumored as “great”.
In real life, they’re a hotbed of lies and cognitive dissonance.

Sociopaths’ sex lives are integral to their survival. Really. After all, sex renders prey usable. In other words, sex is a major tool in the parasitic predators snag-and-use-tool-kit. Not to mention what a tool every sociopath is if you’ll pardon the pun.

Whatever you might call them, think of their behavior, the way they treat you, and consider them as parasitic predators without a heart, a conscience, or a caring bone in their body.

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Dating a “narcissist” feels like
an episode of American Horror Story.
The real horror is though – it’s real life.
Wondering if we’re losing our mind is a sure sign
we’re dating a “narcissist” – a pathological narcissistic user.

Dating a “narcissist” can only lead to one place and it’s not good. Not good at all. During our time “with” them, there’s a surreal feeling of internal disturbance and uneasiness. I remember an unsettling and nagging uncertainty that I couldn’t shake – even in the early days when it was all so exciting.

Like you probably did, I perceived this excitement as “love” in the beginning. Then things went a bit more odd at the same time as our lives intertwined more deeply. Eventually, there were days I felt like I was losing my mind. Since you’re here reading this, I guess you too wondered at some point, am I crazy?

Why is this? What’s really happening? Everything you’re feeling is normal. Normal and not permanent. Let’s talk about it.